Frequently Asked Question
“So, are you cancer-free now?” No, I’m not. Why does it bother me so much when people ask me this? I know people mean well, but when they ask it makes me feel like I need to defend myself. Just because...
View ArticleMoving on
I haven’t written much lately but that doesn’t mean things aren’t happening. In fact, many things are keeping me busy. For one, I am looking for work. Who knew looking for work would take so much work?...
View ArticleWhat to say about cancer: a reader participation post
I don’t have a problem telling people I have cancer. The problem is… how do you tell someone? I know there are many people who would say, “It’s no one’s business but your own; you don’t have to tell...
View ArticleI am the warrior
For Christmas I got two of the same T-shirts from the Livestrong online store. One from Brett and the other from Alicia and Gabe. I like the shirt(s) for multiple reasons. It is designed well. I like...
View ArticleIn honor of me
The LIVESTRONG Facebook page was encouraging people to download bibs (you know, those things people use to identify themselves during a run, walk or bike ride) and share why they participate in Team...
View ArticleIn the fight
Thanks to a tip from Rebecca (in response to the post “I am the warrior“), I have now purchased a T-shirt from Stand Up to Cancer that says “In the fight.” (I also wanted the tank top but it was sold...
View ArticleCertificate of participation
I received an invitation to participate as a “survivor” in the local Relay For Life event. As a survivor I’m invited to participate in a “special survivor’s lap” around a track. I get a T-shirt and a...
View ArticleCongratulations
The best part about being done with treatment is that people are no longer uncomfortable around me. When you are in treatment and you tell people you have cancer they look at you with pity. Friends ask...
View ArticleLiz is a warrior
I do not pretend to know what it is like, but I think I am gleaning what troubles Liz about the use of the classification of her as a “survivor”. Liz has what is presently an incurable form of brain...
View ArticleScrew “watch and wait”… keep fighting
What to do while you’re waiting for your cancer to come back It sounds pessimistic, but let’s be real: even when you are moving on with your life and enjoying survivorship or remission, you still worry...
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